Will u please answer me on this?

tomorow is my birthday, today I had plans to go to see a Princess and the Frog, but I found out my uncle now has brain cancer (he's been recieving cancer treatments for months for a tumor in his throat) so that screwed my husband and I out of going because no one to watch the baby, but when my mom offered to watch the baby we could've went at 1000 he said no that he was tired.. then tomorrow my dad wants to take me out to the movies to see new moon,(he wont take me to a disney movie) i wanted to go see princess and the frog with my husband tomorrow but again no baby sitter and I hate to go by myself. I was supposed to also get a blu ray player and the new harry potter dvd and do the bd live thing but my husband wants to buy it then take it back to the store next day. I know it sounds selfish but with all thats going on everyone will forget about my birthday and my feelings...what can i do for my bday even with this chaos